My Father Never Returned Library Books: A Father’s Day Reading Remembrance

by Tom B.

Father's Day Reading

Scene of the crime…

With Father’s Day hitting this Sunday, it inevitably got me thinking about my dad, specifically about my dad and reading. My dad died when I was ten. A huge portion of my memories of my father involve watching him read. My dad read ALL THE TIME. He would take piles of books out from the library and sit on our couch, all day and night, and he would read and read and read. He would chain-smoke Benson & Hedges 100s while he read and he would never, ever return those books to the library.


We had mountains of past-due library books in every room in our house, topped with sliding whitecaps made from all of the overdue penalty slips that arrived in our mailbox every day, begging us to return all of the publically-owned books we were hoarding. Those slips were largely ignored.

My dad loved our local library and so did we. And the librarians loved my dad. He was well-read, charming, had an adorably thick Scottish brogue, and always treated the librarians with respect, which is ironic, given how little respect he paid the library’s return policy.

Father's Day Reading

This was our preferred branch for “borrowing” books…

I have vivid memories of driving carloads and carloads of long-hoarded books down to Detroit’s main library branch after – if I’m remembering correctly – some kind of legal action was finally threatened. Fortunately, a friend who worked in the library system “fixed” the problem for us, but only after we did our best to return as many of the ill-gotten books as we could. I remember us meeting him after-hours at a side door of the main branch and just throwing what looked like hundreds of books onto carts, so he could log them back into the system and prevent the library police from taking my dad away to the overdue debtor’s prison. (At least, that was how it felt at the time.)

In retrospect, I am struck by three main thoughts about our long period of familial library larceny.

#1). That was just crazy behavior. Crazy. Seriously, who does that?

#2). I can’t help but wonder if that whole mess was even a partial inspiration behind my own desire to create such a large “bought-and-paid-for… look, I even have the receipts!” home library for my daughter.

And, #3). I wonder if that’s why I never had any books that belonged to my father.

Because, even though you could easily describe my father as a voriacious reader, after he died (which wasn’t that long after our “Great Midnight Library Return” adventure), we barely had any of “his” books left in the house. I’m a person who owns a lot of books. If you went through my bookshelves at home, you’d find an odd mix of titles, but you’d also find copies of every book that ever really MEANT something to me. So, with that in mind, it feels very odd to me that my dad, who also, apparently, treasured books, didn’t do the same thing.

Now my father grew up really poor in Scotland and we were pretty broke when I was a kid, so maybe book-ownership was just an extravagance that he simply didn’t have. Maybe he relied on public libraries completely to supply himself with books, which makes for a nomadic reading existence, because, eventually, you have to give those books back. (No matter how hard we fought to prove that rule wrong.) But it always felt unusual to me that my father, the big reader, left such a non-existent book footprint in our home. There was no “Robbie Burns Memorial Library” left on our bookshelves after he was gone. (On the flip side of that, after I die, my daughter is going to be stuck with figuring out what to do with forty different copies of The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy.)

BUT that book footprint got a little more distinct last year when my mother moved out of my childhood home after living there for thirty-six years. As I was helping her clean out our house, she pulled a very dusty box-set of three books off a high shelf. It was a 1965 edition of the Lord of the Rings trilogy by J.R.R. Tolkien. In the decades I’d lived in that house, it was the first time I ever noticed them.

Lord of the Rings

One box-set to bind them all…

“These were your dad’s,” my mom said. “They were a gift from his friends.” She opened to the title page of Return of the King and showed me the inscription – “To Robbie from the Boys – June 1973.”

Fellowship of the Ring: Lord of the Rings

My dad’s eighth-printing 1965 edition of “The Fellowship of the Ring”

“You should take them,” she said. As far as I know, these are the only books that actually belonged to my father. I mean, there are probably several thousand books in the Detroit library system that still smell of his Benson & Hedges 100s, but these are the only three books that I have that I know he actually held, read, and, presumably, loved.

It is both a good and a surreal feeling. First of all, I had NO idea that my dad was into fantasy. And maybe he wasn’t. Maybe there was just something about Tolkien he liked. And, hilariously, even though I’m the biggest geek in the tri-state area, I’ve NEVER read Tolkien myself. Not The Hobbit, not Fellowship of the Ring – not nothing. There was always just something a little too twee about Tolkien that always turned me off, even though I’ve enjoyed the Peter Jackson movies as much as the next guy.

So, this oddly-colored, worse-for-wear edition of the Lord of the Rings trilogy raises a lot more questions than it answers. What did my dad like to read? Why did “The Boys” think that the LOTR trilogy made the perfect gift for him? What was it about Tolkien that connected with him? Did he consider himself more of a Bilbo or a Gandalf? Why did he spend decades “long-term borrowing” books from the library, but felt the need to have his very own copy of Lord of the Rings?

Lord of the Rings

Gotta love the subtle tie-dye coloring on the covers…

I’ll never know. But, with Father’s Day on the horizon, I think I’ll officially move the Lord of the Rings trilogy onto the “Books My Kid Will Read One Day” shelf this year. Granted, that probably also means that I’ll have to breakdown and read Tolkien myself (sigh), but maybe the reason my dad held onto the Lord of the Rings for so long was because he was keeping it on his own version of a “Books My Kid Will Read One Day” shelf.

Or maybe not. Again, I’ll never know. But the fact that I’ll be able to read these editions with my daughter one day and tell her that they once belonged to her grandfather, hopefully, that alone will make it worth the effort. At the very least, it’ll be better than stealing them from the library.

Lord of the Rings

Middle-Earth and lands beyond…

{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

Heather D June 26, 2013 at 8:26 pm

I hope you do eventually read the Hobbit and the Lord of the Rings, and enjoy them while you do. Every time I start to re-read the Hobbit, I am reminded by the narration that Tolkien started off writing these stories as bedtime stories for his son. The Hobbit is a great read aloud actually. We’re in the process of reading The Lord of the Rings to our 8 year old son, and he loves them, but we do it in small chunks, because, well, that’s a lot of book!

And what Neal above says is true, there’s not a lot of empowered women in his stories. That’s okay though, because the few that are there are very strong.

As far as knowing what your Dad read, I feel the same way about the books I have that my dad read. My Dad read a lot of Dick Francis. I remember him reading them. I will always appreciate them because of the connection reading them gives me to my Dad.


Dom O'reilly June 15, 2013 at 7:50 pm

Great story Tom, I am going to pass this on to some of my fellow DPL Librarians……they will appreciate this.


Stephen Greene June 14, 2013 at 6:43 pm

What a brilliant story. Apparently my granddad was a great reader, but he never had any of his own either. When I was about 18 my mum sw me reading ‘A Ragged Trousered Philnthropist’ and nearly broke down and cried. She told me it had been granddad’s favourite book and he would have been so proud to see me reading it. I think I might have to go and see if I can find it and give it another read.


neal June 14, 2013 at 1:27 pm

Way cool find. There’s not a lot in those books about empowered women, with a few scant exceptions, but I’m pretty sure I’ll be working through them with my daughter as well.

I was at the library the other day, and they wouldn’t let me check out any books because I had an 80 cent fine. Then, they wouldn’t accept my credit card because they only do credit cards for charges of $5 or more. I didn’t have any cash, so I had to haul my daughter home to get it and then return, and it was a huge pain. Having friends in high library places would cure help a lot.


Michele June 14, 2013 at 3:19 am

What a great story. And what an amazing set of books.

We’re off to the library tomorrow. We have some overdue books to return.


Mary R. June 13, 2013 at 11:12 pm

Just when I think I have too many things checked out… In spite of the circulation shenanigans, your dad still instilled in you the sense that books and reading matter- and are engaging. What a great family story.

I know that now- as a parent- I check out more and keep much less around (trying to be a minimalist- and more frugal.) I am more likely to buy books for the kids, but we typically try the library first. (That being said, having been a classroom teacher and reading/ writing workshop curriculum consultant and reading teacher in primary grades- kid books are all over the place.

I actually did the unthinkable this week. I sneaked work and took a book off my daughter’s bookshelf and gave it to a student. It couldn’t wait. I’ll need to write more about that later. Maybe when school lets out.

I think I’ll now and check make sure I don’t have any overdue notices…


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